Thursday, December 10, 2009

up for a vote

Nick might kill me, he doesn't know I'm doing this!

On one of the legal forms we have to put Jeong-Hwan's American name. They will issue his Korean passport in his American name! If we leave it blank they will issue it in his Korean name (Jeong-Hwan Choe).

So it's not a HUGE deal, but selfishly I want it in his American name, just to finally have an offical form that says BATES BROWN!

But, we have run into a little snag.

We were originally going to name him Bates Martin Jeong Brown. The more we talk about it and I think about it, I don't want him to have a double middle name. I mean, that will be a nightmare for him in school and on official documents. So Nick and I talked about just naming him Bates and then keeping a part of his Korean name. It's important for me to keep part of his Korean name somewhere, somehow.

So, it's up to a popular vote. Of course Nick and I get final say, but cast your ballots now.

Bates Martin Jeong Brown
Bates Jeong Brown
Bates Hwan Brown
Bates Choe Brown

14 comments:

  1. I vote for Bates Choe Brown. Is the Choe pronounced Show? Cho? Hopefully it's Cho. Bates Choe Brown sounds great. I like the initials too.

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  2. I am partial to the double middle name. Ya know, the boyfriend has one too. I like keeping the Korean family name. It's part of us, so why not just keep it around?

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  3. I like the double name thing (both of mine have double first names). It's not too big of a deal in school stuff. I usually put John David as a first name and leave middle blank-if that's what you're worried about. And, some of the kids I have get to "choose" what they want to put on test forms they fill out; it kinda gives them a choice in their name for certain things, and they have never minded.

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  4. I can't decide! They are all good options. I'm sure you two will make the right choice!

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  5. I've been thinking it over all day and I can't seem to pick one either. I think one middle name would be simpler and I am leaning toward Jeong or Hwan. I keep thinking when people hear Hwan they might think Juan though which would be weird. So I guess I have decided, I vote Bates Jeong Brown.

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  6. My vote goes for Bates Jeong Brown.

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  7. I like all 4 names... there is meaning to all of them.

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  8. I say do two middles. Martin is important to you. Keep it unless Bates might have a little brother named Martin:)

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  9. I like Bates Choe Brown...I agree with the 4 names potentially being a nightmare. And..yes Nick may kill you.

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  10. Ok...I like the 2 middles, but agree that it could be a pain on legal forms in the future. Is his Korean name hypenated? If so...could you use both as one middle name? (Bates Jeong-Hwan Brown) If you use just one I vote for Jeong.

    Tell Nick this is what girls do...we ask for lots of input so we can make a WELL THOUGHT OUT decision! He still gets final vote since he IS Daddy :)
    Jeanine

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  11. Like others have said they are all great but if voting I would choose...
    Bates Jeong Brown

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  12. I have a double middle name and it's not a huge issue. (Leigh-Ann) But, if I have to vote on one without a double middle name, I say Bates Jeong Brown. I like the Initials too - BJB.

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  13. It was fun meeting you and Nick last night!! May God continue to bless the adoption process.:)
    All the names options are great!!

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  14. Two middle names are an awesome legacy for Bates! I say go with your first instinct.

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